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Strohwitwe

Emily SherwinOctober 15, 2013

Mourning for dummies

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There's no reason to offer your condolences to anyone who refers to themselves as a Strohwitwe: a "straw widow" probably won't be alone for very long. The term refers to a woman whose partner is away for an undefined period of time. A Strohwitwe has been left to sleep alone in their shared bed - which nowadays is hopefully made out of something more comfortable than straw.

The origin of the term can probably be traced to the Middle Ages. A woman who was unmarried but no longer a virgin was referred to as a Strohbraut (a straw bride). Despite its rather archaic roots, the word also has a male equivalent: Strohwitwer.

How long your partner is away before you feel widowed is rather subjective: some might become a Strohwitwe or a Strohwitwer after a few weeks - for others mere minutes might be enough.

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